Subliminal Perception and Persuasion

Subliminal Perception and Persuasion

a. Subliminal Perception
-perceiving sensory stimulation that is below absolute threshold.

b. Subliminal persuasion.
-sending persuasive message below the recipient’s level of awareness.

these interest me deeply, the explanations that given by our lecturer were an eye opener, i had lived more than 4 decades without having second thoughts on this matter becaused previously it did not matters

he showed us some slides on the subliminal perceptions and persuasiosn and that were really an eye opener..

there will be no more hard metal music from my son room nor my youngest daughter can watch television without supervision or reading my magazines with my permission

it were so abvious that advertisements and musics are the main problem to our youths personality.. behaviour

i hope i am not to late with my own teenagers growing up with so much subliminal practices around us..

some of you might be wondering what am i trying to say here, subliminal perception and persuasion is a method done by the cults or whoever irresponsible by influencing you beyond your awareness...i hope that explain all..

..public transports ...an open book of knowledge..

...i took the the train today..i love hate public transports..since my husband has been my faithful driver (shhhh) sending and picking me up whereever and whenever i want to go, has limited my travelling by public transports..and I am not complaining...never..

...today i want to share a small maybe..minute event that happened in the train but make me feel touched and content..and happy..

..a mother of late 40s whacking her maybe 5 years daughter had caught my attention..

..i am very furious to see the incidence and maybe might interfere if the woman did not stop whacking that small thin frame of that girl..

..she was brave..i looked , a glanced maybe, she pulled her face away from my eyes..

..her eyes watered..but did not spill..

..she must have taken whacking numerously in her life..but it did make her sad..

..again i glanced and throw a smile..a grin maybe..

..this time she looked at me ..

..i slipped to stand next to her..and gently brush her hand with my side of my body..she looked up..her mother or grandmother is a bit further than us..I smile again..

..she smile too..she has these cute little teeth..with cute nose..with beautiful eyes..
..she will be gorgeous soon..

..no words were exchanged except we kept smiling..

..and before she stepped out from the train..she waved at me...

..and the feeling is priceless...

the trust..the beliefs..the perception of that girl is not deterred by the abusive whacking from that woman..yes, she will survive..she might be someone important..i hope..or prayed..

i am content

a helping hand

You have no second thoughts when come to your part in lending a hand helping others in need. You will sacrifice what you have and with passion you will not retaliate on whatsoever the outcome when you have made your decision.

That will be nicely said than done. The problem is you are not them. It is not easy to get any help when come to your turn. Unfortunately, it also applies to your friend and maybe your claimed to be "best friend".

Then you will feel very hurt and lost. It will be worst if you start to do the same as them when another cry for help pass your path.

I learned that, if I wish to help or lend a hand or sharing my experience it is because I want to do it and may god bless me. Period.

apa ada pada kawan

tak mungkin semua sependapat dengan aku, aku di kata tak berhati "no passion" keras kepala, suka menang dan tak pernah mau mengalah dan tak pernah mau diam sebelum menang tak memerlukan kawan..

aku rasa tak betul tu semua..aku perlu kawan..supaya aku boleh ada lawan debat aku..boleh fikir benar atau tidak pendapat aku..tapi kawan kawan aku makin pupus dan aku makin hilang kawan dan mungkin aku akan di tinggalkan keseorangan kata anak aku sendiri..

tak ramai boleh jadi kawan aku..keras pada pendirian, tak mudah tolak ansur tapi kalau mereka sependapat dengan aku..seronok lah jadinya..dan ini sudah pun berakhir 20 tahun yang lalu..

nak aku kongsi dengan korang..aku ada kawan baru..masih muda mentah..dan aku berfikir fikir untuk berkeras dengan dia.. namun aku ceria di sebabkan dia masih lagi mau menghubungi aku dan menjadi kawan debat aku..

kawan sangat penting dalam hidup aku..menceriakan dan mengiyakan kewujudan aku..

namun aku tetap keras pada prinsip...tapi untuk kali ini..aku beransur dan beralah dahulu...

prinsip

kalau boss tak ada maka aku tahu sebahagian staff department aku akan kurang yang tepati waktu, tak kira waktu masuk atau masuk balik dari makan tengahari..

aku biarkan kerana mereka lebih mengerti apa yang mereka lakukan..dan sudah barangtentu mereka bukan anak anak kecil yang perlu di tegur untuk menepati waktu..

jawatan aku adalah untuk mentadbir jabatan aku dan aku cuba lakukan dengan terbaik yakni cara aku adalah melalui tauladan..

mungkin aku di besarkan oleh bapa untuk menjaga waktu, menjaga janji dan menjaga rahmat allah tentang tanggungjawap dan apa lagi apa yang aku di pertanggungjawabkan..

bukan tidak ada desas desus mengatakan aku kaki bodek..kaki report dan sebagainya..apa yang mereka perlu tahu tentang itu..aku tak perlu bodek sebenarnya..aku sendiri yang akan resah gelisah macam kucing mati anak jika tidak menepati waktu..

aku sendiri yang akan ada guilty consious yang hanya menyebabkan aku lemas jika tidak menepati waktu..terseksa rasanya..

aku teringat aku pernah meninggalkan kawan aku kerana lewat 3 minit dan..aku juga pernah tinggalkan kawan aku yang lewat 45 saat...

yang bagus dari sikap aku..semua kawan aku akan awal 3 ke 4 minit kerana tahu benar kesewelan aku tentang menepati waktu...dan aku tak pernah lewat bila berjanji..belum lagi..sehingga ke saat aku menaip blog ini sedangkan aku sendiri akan berada di tempat menunggu setengah jam sebelum waktu..bagi aku biar awal jangan lewat itu sikap yang telah pun menjadi prinsip aku..

jadi jika ada kawan kawan yang terbaca dan ada yang masih tertanya tanya mengapa aku tidak boleh menunggu adalah kerana..batas waktu terlalu berharga bagi aku..

...celebration...

...how many years ago i had no memories of celebrating any birthdays with my mum...today is my daughter birthday...and to make sure the tradition stays..i am not to start any this year..well getting her a gift is different..

..she was very happy to see a beautiful wrapped box on her bed yesterday ...and the gift ...she tried her best to smile back ...

..and I left the room..

..this morning..she woke up ealier than usual.. hugged and a pecked on the cheek..and thanked me..

..and off she went with her groups of friends..(two of them are my nieces)..

I am not the type that nagged, give advices or shower her with gift..she understood..and she always asked me..did I hurt you in any way ...and I looked..

...and I said.."I had forgiven you before you make the mistakes..so if I die anytime and we are not able to ask for forgiveness from each other..please remember you had never hurt me....and I always love you.."

that it...one day, i will be able to say it to her ...maybe on her 21st birthday..

..aku nak cuba..

bila aku geram ka, sakit hati ka, kecewa ka, rindu ka aku akan mengadu, kat Dia ja..sebabnya berapa kali aku nak membiarkan kekecewaan itu bertapak kat hati aku, berapa kali agaknya perlu aku biarkan dan mengalah, kali aku nak ngadu, biarlah depa kata aku kaki bodek.

bodek kalau kita dapat habuan, ni dak, aku ngadu ja, sekurang kurangnya hilang lah pedih peri dalam hati aku yang agaknya nak makin tersumbat dek lemak lemak tepu..

dah aku cerita kat kawan aku, lagi pulak aku suruh berjanji, jangan ceghita ngan orang, tak sampai dua ari, mai bersemboq kat muka aku. susah susah...

macam aku tak pernah kena sekeh macam ni..banyak kali dah, tapi aku ni memang tak mudah nak belajar dari kesalahan kesalahan lepas.

kalau ikut kata ibu aku, aku ni degil, degil tak boleh di ajar, dah terantuk kepala sendiri, baru lah nak menyesal, tu pun dah sampai sopek kulit kepala sampai berdarah darah baru lah nak sedar.

nak buat macam

ikutan..

ibu yang memang keras hati..macamlah aku tak tau..

kali ini..aku nak cuba..ngadu..kat Dia ja...

rasa aku..(sangat positif ni)...aku tak kan menyesal kali ini..

Who to be blamed?

I am stubborn. No, not I.

Friends, close ones and families had been trying to make me realize by forcing me to accept that I am not easy to be friend with. I am not a shrew but plain informative friend. Anytime we talked the serenade cool background changed to a fiery debate.

Debate was not, trying to explain to them, it is exchanging words. You are forcing us with your views, they claimed. Then they also should stand on their views with more facts.

Was it my mistakes when I have many answers? We can always add more information, and elaborate, claimed me.

They should also accepted and realized and understood that I have many views with many answers and many perspectives ,colourful that is. The problem is, they do not want to prolong the debate when their answer are not factual enough to throw it back to me.

Am I to be blamed when they have not done the reading, watching, observing, listening and thinking?

..when i listen to music..

..my feelings changed and ...

..how the music can change my mood...

..how many times it brought tears...

..how many times it changed my entire perception about life..

..how many times it makes me missed the old good days..

..how many times it should scar my heart...


music cherished me..most of the time..

but today..the music is killing my peace...

i kept thinking..and it is hurting teribbly..

god...guide me..i am helpless again...

...kamu yang tentukan

...berpuluh tahun bersama..apa yang dapat mengikat begitu lama...cinta ke..tak ...tak....tak seberahi itu...

..gaduh..selalu..masam muka..selalu...berleter..selalu..nain angin, bertukar kata yang pedih juga selalu..

..kenapa boleh bertahan begitu lama...

..kerana kami masih lagi ada jodoh...

..kerana kami cepat cepat mohon maaf dan memaafkan..

..kerana kami sedar kami manusia sebegini lemah..

..kerana kami sedar..siapa lah kami tanpa satu sama lain..

..kerana kami yang tentukan..untuk selalu..ucapkan..kata kata rindu ....

..Lagi lagi macam ni lah keadaannya..

..melayu..dan sudah semestinya tapi tak sewajibnya adalah orang islam di malaysia ini..

..dan sudah semestinya tapi tak semua..suka berdengki dan tamak dan ego dan degil..

...senang jer aku cakap..kalau dah sumber rezekinya dari xxxxxx.......kesudahannya..tak payah lah aku panjang kan lagi..

..nak kata aku bagus sangat.sudah tentu tidak..bergantang aku buat dosa setiap hari...tapi..mungkin aku sebangang ini tak mudah terjebak..

..selalu aku kata kat mereka...kalau dah tak reti berenang..jangan lah berdiri di tepi kolam yang dalam dan licin..

..berbakul aje kawan aku kena makan angin kus kus aku..sebab dah nak sangat tahu pendirian aku tentang perlantikan baru surau aku yang nak roboh ni...

...biarlah..kata aku..kalau nak sangat membuat pembaharuan hendaklah mengundi dengan jujur..

..jika tiada kejujuran di sana...kita berdoalah ....sebab itu sahaja layak kita dapat perbuat memandangkan...kroni mereka 80 kali ganda dari kita...

...dan aku sudah malas untuk memanjangkan marah kearah..yang tidak memajukan diri aku..secara batiniah..

..pesan aku sebelum aku berangkat balik...kalau aku dah jauh besok..dan kalian tinggal ...peganglah..perbuat lah dengan ikhlas kerana allah semata mata...

..jangan marah jika kita perbuat untuk allah..kerana allah..demi allah...KERANA YANG MEMANDANG DAN MEMBALAS..ALLAH LAH JUA...

SEKIAN..

WASSALLAM